Julie de Ruiter

Julie de Ruiter

East of England

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Legal supervision is your time, your space, and your personal well-being will be at the very centre of our work together.

I decided to train as a Legal Supervisor, following an extended period of work with a family lawyer. The cumulative effect of dealing with a client’s distress and pain, had culminated in her being burdened with a high level of vicarious trauma, and an overly emotional involvement with her client. Whilst working alongside her in processing this trauma, I became aware of not only of the impact on, but also the very clear need for professional supervision for family lawyers and legal professionals in general.

My career in mental health and well-being began over twenty years ago, I have extensive experience of working in both the charitable sector, and private practice. I have implemented and delivered a wellbeing service within a FTSE 100 company. I also have legal experience delivering my specialised divorce therapy for clients of lawyers based predominantly in East Anglia.

I welcome the opportunity of discussing my approach to supervision for both individuals and companies.

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